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| How selective am I in selecting topics to argue with you about? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I think I listen to God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about getting our next pet from the animal shelter? |
| What struggle are we currently facing that we need to learn from? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about you reminding me to do things? |
| HDIF when I think about some of the crazy things we did for each other? |
| HDIF when I think about making a will? |
| HDIF telling you something I assume you do not want to hear? |
| HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken? |
| HDIF after hearing the story of the prodigal son? |
| God made you a part of my life. HDIFAT? |
| What does the way I spend my time tell me about my values? HDIFAT? |
| How long has it been since we called or wrote our prayer couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself? |
| What am I afraid of? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you really try to reach out and accept my emotions / feelings? |
| Am I filling my needs for love mostly in our relationship, or mostly elsewhere? HDIFAT? |
| Did we keep the true spirit of Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I experience growth in our sexual relationship? |
| When was the first time I knew you were the one for me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I express my emotions / feelings spontaneously? HDIFAT? |
| What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being sprinkled with holy water? |
| Do our arguments get resolved to my satisfaction? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I really made you laugh? HDIFAT? |
| We have unfinished chores. HDIFAT? |
| What do I like best and least about our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe life owes me? HDIFAT? |
| How often do we invite people over? HDIFAT? |
| I love you because _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about making each day Valentine's Day, at least for a while? |
| Do we keep a scrapbook of our marital memories? Why or why not? HDIFAT? |
| What was my biggest challenge in loving you today? HDIFAT? |
| What would it take for me to really commit myself to this marriage? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever feel used in our lovemaking? What is this emotion / feeling like? |
| HDIF about my eventual death? |
| What helps me learn the most about my people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I give money or time willingly or grudgingly? HDIFAT? |
| What have I learned about you recently that surprised me? HDIFAT? |
| I make many of my decisions by _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF at social gatherings when I meet a lot of new faces? |
| Do we have a role to fulfill in other couples' relationships? HDIFAT? |
| Do make sure things are arranged, or just let things happen? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF while we are making love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about a walk in the moonlight with you? |
| Is your quality of life better or worst than 10 years ago? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are jealous? |
| HDIF about giving a month's worth of dialogue questions to a favorite couple? |
| HDIF when I listen to your gripes? |
| HDIF reading your favorite book? |
| HDIF when we see something we want but cannot afford? |
| HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me? |
| HDIF about the coming of spring (or other season)? |
| Have I experienced Scripture or a sermon speaking directly to me? HDIFAT? |
| What unresolved problems do I see in our marriage right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when time and exhaustion keep us from being lovers? |
| HDIF when some job or activity separates us? |
| HDIF when I am sleepy and you want to make love? |
| How are you a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT? |
| What specifically can I do this week to create a little more romance? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone else gets the parking place I am waiting for? |
| HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs? |
| What was the most tender moment we shared together this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you laugh at my jokes? |
| HDIF about the differences in the way we discipline our children? |
| HDIF about our closeness when we dialogue on Scripture? |
| When do I feel closest to my father? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe we should share household tasks? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when my people say no to God? |
| HDIF about our going out together alone more often? |
| Have I ever stepped on someone's toes to get where I want to be? HDIFAT? |
| What is my biggest challenge right now? HDIFAT? |
| What was the silliest thing I ever did with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when friends fail to do a promised favor? |
| HDIF when we fight fairly? When we fight unfairly? |
| HDIF when good friends of mine move away? |
| Our parents are growing older. HDIFAT? |
| When I do not know something, what am I most likely to do: pretend I do, ask, or ignore it? HDIFAT? |
| What is my listening pattern when we talk about prayer or God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about living my daily life without to-do lists, using only my memory? |
| HDIF when friends offer to help? |
| HDIF when I think you are beating around the bush rather than giving me a straight answer? |
| I am lucky to be married to you. HDIFAT? |
| We are not Sacrament without passion. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I say good things about you to other people? |
| Do my thoughts make me happy or unhappy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who are moody or depressed? |
| What would our children say about our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| How good am I at loving when I am not feeling loved? |
| Describe a time when I felt surprised. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding? |
| HDIF about experimenting in our sexual relationship? |
| I have seniority at work. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we must borrow money? |
| How well do I think my people listen to me? HDIFAT? |
| If I could take you any place, where would I take you? HDIFAT? |
| What are your best qualities? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when circumstances make me second guess one of my own decisions? |
| Do I measure my worth by what I own, or by those whose lives I have touched? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I made a conscious decision to love you? HDIFAT? |
| What is the level of our communication when we are home together? HDIFAT? |
| How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live? |
| What new desires for our relationship have we gained this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you accept my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF about sharing you with our children? |
| Have I affirmed my love for you today? HDIFAT? |
| When things are not going well between us, what do I think about? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to contribute to our family having a good time on vacation? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive a card from you in the mail? |
| HDIF about our use of alcohol? |
| If our house were on fire, what one object would I most want to save? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when your parents drop by unexpectedly? |
| HDIF when we have a candle-lit dinner? |
| Was there a time, in the past week, when I felt joy in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I am lonely, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| What couple has been the clearest sign of Sacrament for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about making a list of our important documents and where we keep them? |
| HDIF when I hear, Love is not love until you give it away? |
| Do I think God led me to Encounter / Retrouvaille, or that Encounter / Retrouvaille led me to God? HDIFAT? |
| What gets in my way, preventing me from learning more about you? HDIFAT? |
| When am I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about learning to use a pistol or rifle? |
| Do I prefer the natural look or the more made-up look? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing you love me? |
| HDIF about taking a walk you in the snow? In the rain? |
| Do we physically touch enough? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about a receiving a challenge? |
| Am I available whenever you want to talk? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our ability or inability to have children? |
| Am I a saver or a spender with my money? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of listener was I before we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| What does it take for me to trust someone? HDIFAT? |
| What has the strongest positive influence on my sexual experience? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going to bed earlier or waking earlier so we have time for us? |
| What is my most vivid memory of our honeymoon? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see you after a long separation? |
| What thing or activity would it be difficult for me to give up and why? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I feel the need to be reconciled with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to deal with my past? |
| Do I accept God's will? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see us as different from other couples? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my spirituality? |
| What gifts has God blessed me with? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone hurts you? |
| Do I trust myself? HDIFAT? |
| What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe in myself? HDIFAT? |
| Can I put you before myself? HDIFAT? |
| Do I always have to learn by making my own mistakes? HDIFAT? |
| This week, what have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my attitudes about sex? |
| HDIF when someone rejects me or does not love me? |
| HDIF when I must explain my actions? |
| Do I let my low self-esteem get in the way of accepting God's love for me? HDIFAT? |
| My favorite memory of Christmas is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Am I a good friend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I know we are going to have sex? |
| What bad effect has the example of my parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT? |
| What values of mine differ from my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are under pressure? |
| HDIF when you light candles? |
| Am I loud on blame and soft on praise, or the other way around? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I tell you more about my job or career? |
| HDIF when we read a book together? |
| HDIF when I ask your forgiveness? |
| After a fight: What have I learned about the way you handle conflict? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consult with my people when I am making plans? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we take time to wallpaper, paint or do other housework as a couple? |
| In what areas do I feel vulnerable to you? HDIFAT? |
| What do I remember most about the way we spent our first anniversary? HDIFAT? |
| What do my deeds say about me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see God's plan for us as a privilege or a burden? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about trying to make something beautiful with my hands? |
| After a fight: HDIF when we argue in front of our children? |
| Do I tear you down in order to build myself up? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have completed a project? |
| HDIF about returning to the daily routine after a long weekend? |
| HDIF about the fun, or lack of fun, in our relationship? |
| HDIF when I make a sacrifice knowing Jesus sacrificed for me? |
| I am happy to be alive today because _____. HDIFAT? |
| Are we as close today as we used to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when stress builds and you do not see the warning signals? |
| Do I give my best to our family or to others? HDIFAT? |
| Are we as romantic as we need to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone blames me? |
| HDIF when I want to spend time with you, but you are too busy? |
| What do I remember most about our first date? HDIFAT? |
| What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| What compliment do I least like to receive about me? HDIFAT? |
| Do we pray for any of our children to be open to a religious calling? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I discover the assumptions I made about you are not true? |
| HDIF when I see you totally open to me in our lovemaking? |
| What would I like to do with you that we have never done before? HDIFAT? |
| Have we over extended ourselves as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about picking up after our children? |
| Something new I have discovered about you is _____. HDIFAT? |
| When I am best I am _____. Can I be this way and be with you? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we gazed at a sunset, sunrise or starry night together? HDIFAT? |
| I see you as someone very special because _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about hiring help with yard work? |
| In what areas have we grown because of past failures? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Who got hurt? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you come home in the evening? |
| HDIF about our child's college plans? |
| How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not met? HDIFAT? |
| What quality do I look for in others that helps me believe I can trust them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director? |
| When do I feel pressured by you? HDIFAT? |
| When you go away on a business trip, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| Would I want our child to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I remember you in my prayers? |
| HDIF when I am asked to love, to give, or to forgive but will receive nothing in return? |
| What is my best quality? HDIFAT? |
| How do I behave when I am selfish? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our finances and the coming Holidays? |
| Do people generally find me even-tempered or mercurial? HDIFAT? |
| Is my life inspired by love? HDIFAT? |
| What family Christmas memory will I always remember? HDIFAT? |
| Jesus is risen! HDIFAT? |
| What qualities in your mother do I also see in you? HDIFAT? |
| Because of my familiarity with you, do I sometimes treat you with less respect than you deserve? HDIFAT? |
| How have I shown my love for you today? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| We have no telephone. HDIFAT? |
| How well do I avoid temptation in my life? HDIFAT? |
| When I part with family or friends, do I make the effort to part with loving words in case I do not see them again? HDIFAT? |
| What was our favorite song when we were courting, and HDIF remembering or hearing it? |
| I enjoy our sexual relationship the most when _____. HDIFAT? |
| What changes in my relationship with my people have I taken for granted? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the bills are due, but we cannot afford to pay them? |
| Do we share our joys with others, and spread the good news, or do we celebrate alone? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about how we handle our finances? |
| Do I do my best to give you more than you expect? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: When did I feel most like ducking out? What was that emotion / feeling like? |
| If I were picking a wedding song for us today, I would choose _____. HDIFAT? |
| How do you most help me? HDIFAT? |
| When I think about living without you, HDIF? |
| HDIF about being seen as unsympathetic? |
| HDIF about how we decide whether to make love? |
| Do I have the attitude, Do not start something you cannot finish, and how does that affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How can we best celebrate our anniversary? HDIFAT? |
| On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How did I choose my confirmation name? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children reflect our good qualities? |
| HDIF about planting a vegetable garden? |
| Is it important to be at the Easter Vigil to welcome new members into our church? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you and I are in competition? |
| How does Christmas buying affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT? |
| What does our relationship mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| Whom have I ministered to lately? Was I lifted up by their gratitude? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the freedom or lack of freedom I have in our relationship? |
| What does our church mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am driving very fast? |
| HDIF about paying bills on time? |
| Do I deny my mistakes, or do I learn from them? HDIFAT? |
| Has my love for you changed since we were first married? HDIFAT? |
| What were my emotions / feelings as we experienced the weekend finale on Sunday night? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Is there a way for us to deal with this in a more positive way? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever gotten credit for something I did not do? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think you are taking a superior attitude into our dialogues? |
| HDIF about sex being a decision? |
| HDIF when you brag on me? |
| The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever sent you flowers for no special reason? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about demonstrating one of my unusual talents for you? |
| HDIF when I see Easter lilies? |
| Is Jesus my shepherd? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sharing emotions / feelings? Do I think it is risky? |
| What things crossed my mind this week that I have not bothered to mention? HDIFAT? |
| What prevents me from listening to you? HDIFAT? |
| When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we attend a wedding ceremony together? |
| What are my thoughts when we pray together? HDIFAT? |
| What goodness do I see in you today? HDIFAT? |
| Are we a romantic couple? HDIFAT? |
| What is the first thing I would put in a dream box? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you smile? |
| Do I enjoy formal or informal gatherings? HDIFAT? |
| The couple that has most helped us to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I see the awareness of God alive in our children? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt embarrassed. HDIFAT? |
| What lifetime dream am I still trying to realize? HDIFAT? |
| What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we wash dishes together? |
| With our children, am I more likely to be strict or permissive? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Did I let the fight ruin my whole day? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when discussing our sex life? |
| What are my priorities? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive an unexpected gift? |
| What does maturity mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our pets? |
| If we had to wait 5 years to receive our wedding license, would we still have married? HDIFAT? |
| When our community reaches out to us, HDIF? |
| What image do I have of myself as your sexual partner? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am caught staring at someone? |
| HDIF just before I tell someone something they will not like to hear? |
| Would I feel better if someone found me practical or ingenious? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see God reflected in other people? HDIFAT? |
| Jesus will never give us more conflict than we can manage. HDIFAT? |
| What stands in the way of my making a genuine commitment to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about God's plan for our friendships? |
| What do I think about our couple spirituality? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone (not you) laughs at my mistakes? |
| What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult part of our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| What quality of Jesus did I see in our priest / pastor today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you shut me off? |
| How can I reduce the level of stress in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Am I comfortable doing things at the last minute or is it hard on my nerves? HDIFAT? |
| What do I want our priorities as a couple to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think people are looking at me, sizing me up? |
| Do I give you the gift of space? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when a person answers the phone with enthusiasm and energy? |
| HDIF when I have to shovel the snow? |
| HDIF when I am with good friends? |
| HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results? |
| What do I see as my strengths? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF on those occasions when I think I am most in love with you? |
| HDIF when we are slow dancing? |
| HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening? |
| HDIF when I hear myself say things my mother or father said? |
| If I could relive any moment from our past, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| How have I caused you to suffer? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What subjects cause us the most trouble? HDIFAT? |
| What talent or quality do I most admire in you? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see our strengths as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAT? |
| How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not met? HDIFAT? |
| What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you serve me breakfast in bed? |
| Do I judge I have enough freedom? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about flying? |
| HDIF about myself when I do well? |
| How would I feel discovering that you are hurting right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being in our sharing group? |
| Do we want a deeper loving marriage, or do we think it is deep enough? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT? |
| Am I satisfied with our relationship as it is? If so, should I be? If not, why? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have relatives I should invite to experience the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| Are my priorities so materialistic that they interfere with us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am around very important or powerful people? |
| HDIF when we miss dialogue for several days or weeks? |
| HDIF about the coming of Christ? |
| HDIF about living our marriage according to God's plan? |
| HDIF about our neighbors? |
| HDIF when people are not as loyal to me as I am to them? |
| What good do I see in our children? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we go to mass or church together? |
| HDIF when you are away and I miss you? |
| HDIF about your saying no to me in sex? |
| What helps me confess my weaknesses to you? HDIFAT? |
| What puts me in the mood? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we have so little private time together? |
| After a fight: What tender spots were touched and when? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are too tired to be lovers? |
| HDIF about the time we spend with my family? |
| HDIF about contributing our time, talents, and support to the Encounter / Retrouvaille program? |
| HDIF when there is a last minute change of plans? |
| How are we growing closer or becoming more distant as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am sexually aroused? |
| What quality do I most admire in your mother / father? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt bored. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being seen as unreasonable? |
| When I am among new people, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| The two of us are a little church. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about making New Year's resolutions? |
| Are we committed to dialogue every day? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see in my people that I admire? HDIFAT? |
| Does Lent remind me of our Encounter / Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAT? |
| What about our lives would I like to change? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are holding me in your arms? |
| HDIF about bankers in general? |
| What am I most disappointed with in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see you cry? |
| Do I have a nickname? HDIFAT? |
| When I am given things to do, am I more likely to accept them or complain about them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I help you carry in the groceries? |
| Does our marriage lack vitality? HDIFAT? |
| What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children are praised by strangers? |
| Is there anything I did this week that I regret? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe romance is a sign of weakness? HDIFAT? |
| What percentage of my time do I spend thinking about you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I say no to you in sex? |
| HDIF when I shake out the rugs? |
| HDIF about past Christmases (As a child)? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am blamed for something that is my fault? |
| Have any of our dreams come true? HDIFAT? |
| Do our arguments ever escalate from routine matters to serious matters? HDIFAT? |
| I most need you to love me when _____. HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever run out of gas? HDIFAT? |
| Where would I most like to see growth in our relationship this year? HDIFAT? |
| Who has more fun, adults or children? HDIFAT? |
| If I become more committed to you, I might have to give up _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the organization of my office space at work? |
| My greatest goal in life has been _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you surprise me with something nice? |
| I am most likely to use exaggeration when _____. HDIFAT? |
| We stopped dialoguing altogether for a while. Why? HDIFAT? |
| A couple I would like to see experience the weekend is _____. HDIF about inviting them? |
| HDIF about how we live out our faith? |
| HDIF when I watch our children while you go shopping? |
| How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT? |
| In social situations, do I worry about saying something stupid or uninformed? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF after we dialogue? |
| What would happen to the church without the Sacrament of Matrimony? HDIFAT? |
| Recently, I thought it was wrong, unreasonable, thoughtless or selfish of me to say _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our family vacation time? |
| HDIF about being called to the vocation of matrimony with you? |
| Do I have difficulty letting go of my parenting role now that our children are no longer at home? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you recognize my needs? |
| Describe my idea of a perfect romantic evening, start to finish. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider that you love me? |
| What part of the Passion is most significant to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no? |
| Have I ever witnessed a miracle? HDIFAT? |
| Do I wake up feeling tired? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What starts our fights? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are sick and all of the family responsibilities fall on me? |
| HDIF when I am holding something back from you? |
| Do I trust God to answer my prayers? HDIFAT? |
| What gift have you given me in the past month that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT? |
| Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the kids knock on the door when we are making love? |
| HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness? |
| How are we working for the coming of His kingdom? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about grocery shopping? |
| What comments about myself am I most likely to take personally? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving a list of dialogue questions to a favorite couple? |
| Has this been a good year or not? HDIFAT? |
| How do I react to pressure? How does my reaction affect you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about French kissing? |
| HDIF telling you something I assume you are not going to like? |
| What was the most meaningful experience that I had today? HDIFAT? |
| What is the riskiest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT? |
| What is my purpose in life? HDIFAT? |
| I find it useless to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the ways I try to show you that you are special? |
| Do I use anger as a source of energy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our last vacation? |
| Do I have a winning attitude even when I am losing? HDIFAT? |
| Our decisions are frequently _____. HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever witnessed a baby being born? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about one of us becoming critically ill? |
| HDIF putting things off until the last minute? |
| HDIF when I am rushed into making an important decision? |
| How would I describe the awkwardness I feel when we talk about sex? HDIFAT? |
| Can I recognize when I am under stress? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your promotion potential? |
| HDIF about having a drink with friends? |
| When things piled up on me the worst, I felt _____. HDIFAT? |
| I think our next household project should be _____. HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to listen to you better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I engage in self-pity? |
| When a couple we know gets divorced, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our secret code? |
| HDIF when I find myself wishing you would keep your emotions / feelings to yourself? |
| Do I really believe that emotions / feelings are neither right nor wrong? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about watching TV? |
| Do I sometimes make jokes that leave a critical or unpleasant aftertaste? HDIFAT? |
| Do I want a deeper relationship with God, or do I think it is deep enough? HDIFAT? |
| When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I resemble the Father in all I do? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am the underdog? |
| What causes the most friction between us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say It is OK or Forget it instead of I forgive you. |
| Do I know when to be silent? HDIFAT? |
| Do I, like Thomas, question the way of the Lord? HDIFAT? |
| What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? HDIFAT? |
| What is it that most unites us? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What do I think was your main point? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about taking a short trip with you? |
| HDIF when I surprise you with flowers? |
| What is my most embarrassing moment? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize that God has spoken, or is speaking, to me through you? |
| What year of my life would I like to relive? HDIFAT? |
| The Father knows me personally and has a plan for my life. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am refusing to make up? |
| HDIF when my life is disorderly? |
| HDIF when I think of you dying? |
| HDIF about sharing my failures? |
| What favorite weapon do I use when I do not fight fair? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about chores around our house? |
| HDIF when you hug me after a rough day? |
| Do I want to fit in or stand out? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we take down Christmas decorations? |
| Death frightens me (or not). HDIFAT? |
| How am I living the World's Plan for my life? HDIFAT? |
| What gives me hope when I most need it? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see the stress building up in you? |
| Do I spend enough time with relatives? HDIFAT? |
| What do we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am hoping you keep your emotions / feelings to yourself? |
| When I want you to listen to me, do I also want you to agree with me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I cannot say I am sorry? |
| What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when sarcastic remarks are directed at me? |